About a year and a half ago, I wrote about what an NCT church should look like in practice. A friend has just written a beautiful post on what a New Covenant church should be like at his blog Incurable God Lover: http://incurablegodlover.wordpress.com/2014/07/14/church-new-covenant-style/
Church New Covenant style is a loving, learning, and ordered mess; just like any family. Your family is a mess, but there is (or should be) some semblance of natural symmetry and order evident in your daily lives. Family members don’t quit on each other, at least they shouldn’t. When someone gets upset, they aren’t looking to leave and go down the street and become part of another family. Such an idea is ludicrous. No, they learn how to work through their problems and in that problem-solving they learn how to communicate better and know and understand each other better. Doing church New Covenant style is like that.